tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540283839479085577.post8612736642852966277..comments2023-06-28T04:54:16.142-07:00Comments on Anthroslug the Much Put-Upon: Wrath and the AftermathAnthroslughttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12455234504938025982noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540283839479085577.post-21284955251489966902009-03-15T13:09:00.000-07:002009-03-15T13:09:00.000-07:00Kill him with kindness, cookies and jello. That's ...Kill him with kindness, cookies and jello. That's what the Mormons do.Evan Davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16182133151384159011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540283839479085577.post-1397730348515553222009-03-09T09:05:00.000-07:002009-03-09T09:05:00.000-07:00I know this was hard to share, but I think it is i...I know this was hard to share, but I think it is important.<BR/><BR/>Like you point out, wrath, like abuse, is a cycle… the victim grows to sometimes embody the same traits they feared from their abuser.<BR/><BR/>I think that being aware of your own bitterness and rage toward this man is a good first step with dealing with it… and I know you don’t let it control your actions.<BR/><BR/>You say you know you should forgive him, but you can’t. I don’t necessarily think you should forgive him unless and until you can or want to. Forgiveness is a privilege, a gift, not a right of an abuser.Kaylia Metcalfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12527164450365029203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540283839479085577.post-49140695374316268272009-03-08T09:38:00.000-07:002009-03-08T09:38:00.000-07:00I would but heads with that relative, too. Don't y...I would but heads with that relative, too. Don't you just love those relatives. Love to hate them, that is. ;-)<BR/><BR/>I played the sins game again this week.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296223961815248113noreply@blogger.com